Handy Hints – Towards Toddledom!

Weaning

Be prepared for a lot of mess!

Always have a pack of wet wipes or a wet flannel at the ready!

If you are making your own food for your babies, you will probably be using ice cube trays to freeze your food as puree. When your babies are eating large numbers of ice cubes in each meal, it is easier to freeze meals in a baking tray (the cupcake type) then you only need one or two per meal. You can freeze all sorts of food this way even when they are not eating mush anymore eg spaghetti bolognaise, cauliflower cheese, macaroni cheese etc.

Do not feel frustrated if your babies refuse food that you have spent hours preparing – simply smile and say “never mind”!!!!!!

Toddlers

When there is only one swing at the park (or one swing free), put both babies in the same swing back to back. They wedge each other in quite nicely and there is less room for them to lean forward/backward and tip the swing.

When trying to get two children into a their (second stage) car seats safely when you are in a dangerous place eg car park, open the car door and let one child climb into the foot well (they normally then climb on the seat or into the front!) then you are free to put the second child in the car seat without the risk of them running off.

Let the twins have their own one-to-one moments with you. It's good for them to be away from each other for a while as well.

Most Importantly

Take time for yourself. Sit with your feet up and have a cup of tea, or go out for a meal occasionally with a friend. Life will be frantic, but these quiet moments are important for you to recharge your batteries. You will be a better and happier parent if you do!